What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[Piano]

Hi Gatsby, just checking in with you. Thanks for journaling also and there's some good advice from pearlharbr.

I especailly was grateful to be reminded of : "If there is OW in the picture then don't believe for a second that your responses pushed H further away. I think his plan for controlled separation was just a way to set himself up to explore his other option and keep you on the back burner in case things with OW didn't work out."

I think a lot of us LBSs beat ourselves up over what we did or didn't say. The truth is, if there's an OW or OM, our WSs are blind to every single reaction we have ---- they have already 'left the building' so to speak.

Good on you for putting him out of your mind. My task today also!