Hi all. WARNING: Positive happenings ahead! (I think)

Well, with so many threads having tough times this week, I thought I would try to pick up some of the good vibes off of Bill's thread and put something positive out on the BB!

I am curious to know if you folks think I am reading too much into my H's behavior this past week or so.

Here's the scoop...

My H stayed over night twice two weeks ago rather than get up and leave after some late night quality time

Last week, on Thursday he came over here instead of taking kids for the night. I can't recall if he stayed for late night time or not but

Friday, he emailed some very suggestive stuff from work and I replied in the same. He then called to say that since D had 7 a.m. hockey practice that he thought it would be easier if the kids stayed here (it was his weekend) and he just came over. I said okay.

He came over after dinner, a movie, some and then stayed over again. He got up and took D to practice. Then came home to be with boys while I took D to church program practice. Then he had kids all day while I went on outing with MIL. When I got home, they were still here so we watched a movie, got cozy and then he went home late. The kids stayed here with no mention of going to his apartment.

Sunday, H met us at church for kid's program. Then he went home to change and we went to get Christmas tree. He then stayed and started to install new garage door opener. Then he ran to a friends house and came back late. We watched TV, cuddled and then he went home. (For the first time of late night cuddling we didn't get to which was okay because we both needed sleep )

Today, he called and then sent another email to which I responded. He came over for lunch and ended up eating in his car on way back to office.

Along with all of this, he is intent on grabbing me whenever he can - he is frisky as hell. He still doesn't show much affection in front of kids, but he never really has so while I would like it, it can wait.

My positives -

1. H is spending a lot of time at home (our house).
2. H made no attempt to take kids for his weekend but did family things here at home.
3. H did not get second tree for his apartment.
4. H left a few boxes of tools and stuff in garage yesterday.

My question:
1. Do you think he is testing the water to come home?
(I know his lease is almost up - Jan 15? - and haven't said a word to him.)

I don't want to get my hopes up, and am still going with the flow. I don't ask, I just let him lead this dance. But I have to keep reminding myself to be PATIENT! With yor help I will do it!

One can only hope that my Christmas wish will come true. I am determined to make the success list on this BB!

Thanks for listening and for any added insight.

totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."