6 MONTHS IN AND FEELING A WOBBLE........

[lalxx]

Thank you Mila and libbyasking,
I don't want a divorce - it hurts to think he wants out of our 18 year relationship after 6 months apart......

Anyway, the letter is filed away in my folder and I intend to ignore it. He can do the running if that's what he wants and well I'm going to continue to respond to what has actually happened rather than let my imagination run away with me into 'what if' scenario land.

I have received texts today about buying our son some cricket whites and I saw him briefly when he dropped the children off to my office after he'd picked them up from school.

He texted me about taking the children away at some point this year and enquired about our annual trip to the family home in France (which the kids adore visiting). He decided not to come along on our family holiday last July so i drove there on my own, with my children for the first time ever. I have planned on doing it again in July as part of my GAL strategy!

There have also been a couple of other texts about various people we know and a call - which I didn't respond to.

So, I am seeing him collecting and picking the children up to/from school and being in the vicinity which he hasn't done for several weeks. He will make them their breakfast tomorrow which he hasn't done for at least 3 months.

Keeping my expectation meter to zero and carrying on GAL.


lalxx