Well there is the Marriagebuilders site that has an entire Message Board section on OW babies. There is 2 thoughts-
total and absolute no contact
or hubby has visitation but a middle person picks up adn drops off the child

Reagardless, total and complete no contact with OW must be maintained for it to work.

I really am not sure if your hubby can do that. I mean he is still living with her, right? I mena you offered him the couch many times...


Plus then you would have to realize that this OW would be in your life for the rest of your lives pretty much.... Not a place I would choose to be.


Last edited by june72; 04/26/10 07:05 PM.
M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)