Red flag indeed, and I immediately called her on it. I have full access to her email, she is not on facebook, not very computer savy, I get the cell phone bills and she rarely texts.

She does not work so, there is nothing there. If she is having an affair it can't have any emotion behind it.

She was always lower than me, but she was high enough. I have even been checking her little buzzer she uses, and it has not moved. There are three possibilities 1. she is getting it elsewhere (no other signs) 2. she has totally checked out 3. or low progesterone which she will not get checked.

Burt