Wow. He doesn't trust YOU? That's priceless. I get a lot of "I don't trust you" messages, too, and have often wondered if he's projecting onto me what I should be thinking of him. Though I have different circumstances than you and he hasn't given me those same big reasons to not trust him like yours has.

So, is his plan to just cut you off financially or what?? I'd love to hear what he's planning- or how he tried to explain that one to you. He must care (?) somewhat about the kids- doesn't he know a move like this hurts them as much as you?

When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.