Mariage Row or Marriage Bliss?

[june72]

I guess mostly this:

- Why can't she accept me with my sin/problem now but she could for the 11 years prior to me confessing?

- Why does she see this WORSE than adultery? (her words)


I guess the way I am seeing it. You are looking at her as why is she not willing to accept you more as you are. Not as you need to do work and improve yourself. Not that she probably doesn't need improvement too.

But more by what you have written in previous threads. Just your tone seems to be more about what you need from her, what she needs to change or accept from you.

Of course this is just my opinion. Would love to see other people's insight on this....


I don't know why but sometimes a persons thread gets really slow... usually picks up though.




Why now?
I am guessing she finally had enough, or finally found her voice. Just because she is making a stand now doesn't mean she did not feel this strongly in the past....


I noticed that you two hugged. Good. She loves you... you do realize that, right? I am guessing she is hurting right now...