"My W was not happy with what she saw so we both decided we would go to another mall. W still being very distant and had a terrible attitude and I am not sure what set her off."
You could have just asked her.
"W says with a nasty attitude "You couldn't get my stuff?" I said "I thought you said forget them" she told me she said "you can get them." I apologized for the mix in communication and offered to go back in to get them, as I was exiting the vehicle she said "if you go back in there I will leave you." So I sat back in the seat and pulled off. I tried to clear up the matter and she said "it doesn't matter" and so I said "If it does not matter why are you acting like this" and her reply was "whatever."
This is one of those times where she's bothered by something and it seems like to make her feel better, she takes it out on you. Stop apologizing for everything. There was no "mix-up" in communication. She said she didn't want you to get her stuff and you didn't. You can show compassion and not have her continue to walk all over you.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
