Yes, find your voice, stomp that yard, cut the crap! BBJ, Dan is an abuser. He abuses you in this relationship. It is such an understatement to call it an unhealthy relationship! Here is an article that explains very well how a victim mentality creates an abusive relationship. It is Dan to a T. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ange...e-more-not-okay
Tell your son. Move on. Find a man not a wimpy, victim mentality abuser to spend your life with. You can and will do better! and let him throw his own baseball. If he wanted it done daily, he could have been a fulltime father. You are the mother!
