No one to my mind is suggesting exposure will in and of itself END an AFFAIR..it DOES change yoru spouse's behaviour and stir up the pot... It brings reality to bear on it and does damage... you have to keep hitting it HARD... one exposure with no follow up won't make much impact no... but it is a proven strategy that does make an impact.
I bet if Pass exposed to his own kids it would stir things up even more...
He wants everyone to think he's an HONEST GUY... she exposes that and HE changes his behavior... it DOES make a difference.
The EXPOSURE isn't enough.. YOU need MORE exposure and follow through to ensure he's being honest... he DOES care about his image..he's made that qutie clear by HIDING the affair.
