Your wife will BEAT you TO IT and will paint YOU as a MONSTER...
NEVER SHOW YOUR CARDS... if you are prepared to expose to save your amrriage, just DO IT.
Addicted WS' do NOT back down to threats... they back down to ACTION... WORDS are feathers to them... they just fly away..
A THREAT is not a CONSEQUENCE Ken.
She cheats, you DO X... and she learns that if she cheats, X will follow.
If she LIES and you do Y, she learns that Y will follow...
Each time she PUSHES your LIMITS you SHOW her what the unpleasant result is...
Don't TALK, that won't stop her... ACTION STOPS AFFAIRS.. not threats... Those two are just laughing at you when you do that... They can SMELL your FEAR..
