is my WAH in an MLC (need some experts!)?

[pandora]

can i vent about something? i know he's in a diff't reality but yesterday he was feeling sorry for himself...saying nice guys always come out last but that he's still going to be a nice guy. he's like how come women just treat the nice guys so badly? he's like i don't get it, they say they want a nice guy, but when you are nice, they treat you badly or aren't interested.

personally i was kind of dumbfounded...like, um...you have someone nice right in front of you who adores you and yet you're thinking there is no one out there? i kept having to tell myself that this wasn't about me but still...the irony of it all!

i tried SO hard to listen but i admit, i ended up "discussing" this point...i know shame on me! this was part of my backsliding yesterday. it really hurt to have him say something that was so callous and feel sorry for himself.

honestly, this has been the least of stuff he said but i did find it hard to listen b/c there was only so much of "i get that" that i could say b/c honestly...i didn't get it! lol.

anyways, as i'm writing, i remember something the coach said about saying i get it and just leaving when talks go this way. i'll have to remember that next time.