So I can understand how you could spend time with her, see that she hasn't really used this time for introspection and growth, and not be interested in going back to what didn't work...
It was nice to have the chance to find this out, especially this early on.
I spend my time (usually exercise time) thinking what changes she would have to do to make this work. And the changes would be pretty significant. It is quite a change going from begging and pleading to where I now have standards that need to be met.
