WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

pigskin,

I thought you told her no spending time with the OM with the kids. Did you ever enforce that boundary? Did the church ever confront her like they said they would?

I don't know if you remember a few weeks ago when this came up before, Bond, but basically short of tailing her there's no way I can enforce that boundary. She's already out of the house.

This is kind of what is pushing me over the edge; I'd have more patience if she was trying to break off from the OM, but she's not. Then she has no problem bringing our kids around him, even though she knows I don't want them anywhere near the two of them together. I even have to deal with the indignity of my kids knowing the guy well now, and talking about him in my presence.

I don't know if the church talked to her; she did forward an email to me with a link to some pictures from her baptism. The email was sent by one of the church counselors who in a roundabout way asked if she would speak to her to "follow up" on how she is doing. I doubt my wife took any action though. I've kept my beak out of her church. If they do approach her, I certainly don't want it to be due to my prompting them.