WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

Good Day, just a thought on your last post, perhaps (not sure of course), the filing of the divorce is the wake up for her. As I do not know, please do not take this as advice but as a thought. I believe sometimes our continued extended love is mistaken for we will always be there no matter what the other person does. We are responsible for ourselves and our actions, not the others. Could be a jolt like that, especially if it comes as a shock could be the action that triggers some inward reflection within herself.

Or perhaps if you choose to consider this, suggest to her that should file and get the ball rolling. This might be an option for you as well.

As always, continued blessings and prayers to you and yours!

I'll be fine whether it wakes her up or not, so I don't really care. It would be nice if she snapped out of her fantasy world, but I put no faith in her.

I told her to file months ago, and she's done nothing. I think she feels like there's no pressure to do anything, and she'll hang out as long as she likes. Either that or she doesn't have the guts. She knows that all her family and eventually her children (when they are old enough) will know she had an affair; so perhaps she feels she could save a little face by saying 10 years from now, "Well it was pigskin who filed for divorce, not me."

Thanks for your prayers thegoodfight, I appreciate them.