It will take quite some time, but I have to say that once I started DB'ing to save my marriage, I was actually saving myself. I turned my life around and now it's the xw who feels like the LBS because she sees how much better my life is now that I've moved on.

It's going to take some time, but freedom from pain and regret feels great. Being able to do what you want.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08