Originally Posted By: Katie
how then do you get them to leave the affair? Going dark and 180's correct? I feel so dumb asking again it's like I lose sight of things.


You don't. You tell him what YOU are willing to live with, and not live with.

You cannot tell another adult what they can do. All you can do is tell him what YOU will do: "I will not live in an open marriage."

But you must mean it. Trust me, once he knows that he's crossed that line with you, and that you're SERIOUS about it, he will change dramatically.

Puppy