Hey, sounds like you are doing pretty well with things. Sorry about the anniversary, but hey...next year will be awesome! And you could always suggest to H that the two of you celebrate a belated anniversary, if things continue to keep improving.... Sounds like the intimacy is still ongoing which is good...keeps him connected to you. Also, he is trying by keeping you on insurance and helping with childcare to provide what he can for you...which is a very male indicator of love....he still wants to help take care of you! He's still very much involved!!!
Keep up the good PMA and keep up the great DB'ing...you're gonna make it! It takes time and patience, but you have both.