I am not going to give up the moral high ground....yes I lashed out at my h the other day. Probably the first time he's heard my anger about the sitch he has us in. I called and appologized but haven't heard anything from him.

I am still having difficulty with the fact that one of the reasons he says he left is that I didn't talk about our relationship...so how is going dark/dim doing anything but proving to him that I don't want to talk even more. He also said I act like there is nothing wrong and am just happy and ignore our r....this upsets him. I feel like sending him an email so he reads what I have to say instead of hearing what he wants to hear. .....this is pursuing though!

Anyone have thoughts?


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