Thanks so much for those examples. I've been reading this morning about MrBond's case. Man, he went through so much! That gave me a boost of confidence. If he can do it, I feel like I can too. My sitch is similar to his in many ways. I plan on reading about the other cases too. Some of these threads are so long! I think I can get some ideas on what works and what doesn't by doing that.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.