You are an inspiration...I have followed your thread off and on for the past several years and really felt at some point you would finally, finally, finally throw in the towel...I mean I managed for 2 years before H started his come-back but you, my dear, went through it and then some over and over...
I am glad to hear that it appears things are progressing more forward...there will be bad days here and there, just remember to keep GAL and to not hover...let them have their bad days without making issues or feeling that you need to get them to talk...there is a time to talk but not when the mood is not so good...It really sounds to me like you both are on the road back...it will take some time but there will come a day when you realize you didn't think about the past for a day...then it will be longer and longer until it rarely comes to mind.
I do hope your kids are doing okay...I know they went through it too...how is your DD these days? and your DS?...
