I just can not understand...........why you still want this guy?

<<I had held off hoping things would change and they hadn't so we needed to level with the kids.>>

This is just persuing again BBJ....don't want to lay it on you here but I really thought you were moving on ... with the dating etc. Temporary setback .... you need to distabce yourself and honestly you may want to text at normal hours if at all.

Sorry....read your post and although I agree with poster above that it is none of his business etc.... you sound a little off.