when you planned to file for a divorce and end your marriage completely, didn't you expect this?
No one should expect to wake up one morning and not have a dime in the bank...I have 2 boys and my H did this exact same thing to me...I didn't make any decisions until 3 months after that...He should still be held financially responsible for his children regardless of who he is sticking it in.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~