Please post if your DB'ing worked...

[newmama]

For me, there is an affair going on but my H has brought up D 4 tiems in the last year. (Twice before I posted here)I have been hung up on what will happen to my S if we D and am working on that through therapy. I know I will be okay- but the kids will suffer and there is nothing we can do about it other than be stable ourselves.

Dbing started out as incentive to get H back and in the process, I have become an improved person. I believe no one can "tell you" to stop worrying about your W and worry about you---it is a personal process that will take place IF you DB! YOU will be in a worse spot if you don't-meaning you might never stop worrying about W! Just try to be as consistent as possible and read about walk away wives on other sites as well--they are a little different than walk away husbands! Be careful with that back of yours!!!