Jackie - LOL!!!

Thanks for the great pick me up. And while we are on an underwear theme...I got an email from my H today simply asking me what I was wearing. I emailed back "what do you want me to wear?" and this playful exchange is still going on with one of the latest telling me he had a break before a meeting today. Unfortunately, the cyber time warp got us on that one.

It was interesting in that I had just emailed him an apology and when I hit send my inbox indicated his first message of the day. So he hadn't seen my email yet...and he still responded!

Yeah! I took a trip to Frederick's last week and to another place as well. I even tossed out everything white and cotton. And I agree that thongs are great - I never thought I'd say that - ever. But it's true.

BTW, one of his beefs is that we have been paying for child care while I "wasn't working" - even though I was on unemployment and did one gig last spring. I truly think what changed his mind on that is that I interviewed for and got offered that job in October that would have increased the child care cost and not brought in any money. Now with two gigs going on and for great money - he has seen the light ????

I'm happy to drop it as I love my two days to do chores, all the shopping, all appointments, help his mom and my folks, volunteer at school and did I mention - work my consulting gigs?

I am sure that he is worried about money. His added cost of living has eaten up all of our savings. It is ironic that one of the things that bugs him around here is the awful state of our floors in the main parts of the house, yet were it not for the increased expenses of his apartment, etc, we could afford anything we want. It costs more than double our mortgage for his rent and expenses. Talk about limboland!

Luckily, my income can cover the floors and help rebuild the savings. All will work out - right?

Thanks for the support! Your wisdom, along with the very suggestive conversation that I just had with my H on the phone , has my PMA on the upward curve again!

Thanks!

totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."