AC, sounds to me that as long as OM is still in the picture, it makes sense that your W doesn't believe change in your M is possible. I think most Ws say they don't feel things can change, blah, blah, blah. I believe it's just their way to justify their behavior.
My W has told me that people don't change, it's too late, whatever. It's all BS but that's how they feel right now. My W wanted to go to MC for closure. Who knows for sure why your W decided to go with you to MC? Did your W agree to go to another MC session with you? If you can keep her going to MC that could be a good thing. Did your W say any specific reasons why she doesn't think she can work on your M?
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch
