HI I"m just checking in on your sitch. I want to offer support - my MC also said, if he's not trying to "connect" then I should stop trying.
Yet, my H is in MC with me, even though we are separated. OUr communication has gotten much better, but he bombed me again on our one year anniversary of the first bomb that there's an OW and he's not interested in being with me. So it's confusion land...
Pearl is very strong and her advice is really good. Listen to her.
