Unfortunately, the kids are always the biggest victims. I'm a product of a divorced family myself, so I know what mine ewent through.

Even now almost 6 months into being a re-united family, neither child has ever questioned what "really" happened. They just don't want to go there.

And the rare couple of times where (x)W and I would 'agree to disagree' and quarrel a bit, they would freak out and I know S11 has begged her to stop in fears that I'd leave.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11