OTMT,
This is still way too much about why SHE needs to change.
The only thing in life you can control is yourself. You need to change.
Make sense?

Work on yourself....

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)