Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks guys! were you all vacationing at the same time?

Well I don't have any plans on bringing up any R talk but if it goes that way I will let her know that I'm done. Maybe I'm reading robx and gucci's posts lately but I have a feeling she's having EA/PA. For her to move out and within a week file for D etc and having an A last time too (though she claimed she only had a PA once) all points to it and I feel like it's all over. I just have to come out of the denial and move forward...easier said than done.

Yesterday around 12:30p she called my cell saying "we just got back and wanted to know if you were taking DD to the girl scout thing - you don't have to." I said "yeah I was going to take her for a little bit, not the whole time". Her: "oh ok, do you want me to meet you guys there or are you taking her by yourself, I mean either way is fine". Me: "yeah I'm fine taking her by myself". Her: "ok", Me: "ok, bye".

So we get there and a little bit later another mom tapped me on the shoulder saying "oh we're over here...by the me and STBXW just pulled in at the same time" Me: "oh I didn't realize you went to the biking trip with her" Her: "yeah that's me, I'm her sping instructor too" Me: "oh i c" - I'd only met her once before.

Last night DD called her and she was at her "studying partner's house" - who's apparently this other lady. But I'm starting to doubt everything she says and does. She's not the woman I thought she was. I feel like if a woman did for me half of what I've done for her I'd never leave, hurt or be dis-honest to...ever.

Oh the upside, I had a great time hanging out with DD. We did a lot of fun stuff together. She didn't want to call STBXW last night either but I kinda made her by dialing the number and handing the phone to her.