I don't know how much one person can take, Luv.

I don't know how much the kids can take. For my W, who keeps saying the kids are the most important thing in the world to her, she seem content in the knowledge that I am here to take care of them. How to be ther for my kids and not for her? That's what I am struggling with right now.

Seeing the kids hurt tears me apart. I'm sure it does you too. To us, they are the most important thing in the world. Innocent bystanders who stand to lose the most. Yes, they can learn to deal with time and two parents who are commited to at least make this as painless as possible on them. That is hardly ever the case, though. Their world will never be the same and that is so sad because, to us, it is so avoidable.

More prayers coming your way. I know they help. I KNOW THEY HELP!

Take care of yourself!


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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