IDU, you're walking a difficult line and you're doing a good job at it! As you say, you're in a tough spot with the kids. It sounds like you're shifting...they say anger is good. I guess it can be a step towards detaching. Take care, hold your head high, and live for yourself and your children!


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.