Originally Posted By: nicole8
Trent thanks for all the information.... I have done some reading this weekend. What did you think of Retrouvaille? Was it something you would suggest to a friend?


Absolutely. I wish we'd done this before it got to this stage.

Originally Posted By: nicole8
I have a personal training session tomorrow that came with my new membership. I am hoping the trainer is an attractive male smile I know that is horrible to say because I am married, but it's how I feel.


There is nothing wrong with having someone compliment or flatter you. It can be great for your self-esteem, especially when you're not receiving it from your husband.

But you're kinda giving up the moral high ground if you go seeking attention from other men while you are married -- especially with how upset you have been with his behavior.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."