Timeheals.... I was being totally sarcastic about the mail trainer... I'm a little nervous to be honest.

I do find it funny that my h is trying to convince me we should be d. I asked him to tell me what I could have done different. Yes, I know I shouldn't have asked because this is pursuing. But he told me the only mistake I made was marrying him. I told him that he and our m were worth fighting for.

I do also find it funny that he said he is trying to be more independant from me. Really? How is that going for ya living at your moms and she does everything for you? Seriously messed up. He is giving up on our m because he shouldnt have never looked at another woman so now our m is broken.....yet he doesn't think he is an adulter and he isn't seeing anyone. Yet each time he has broken up or tried to end things with her he has come home. So complicated and very high school.


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