What should I do about potential OM?

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W resumed grilling me about female coworker and females I've friended on FB. I said fine - let's share all passwords, I've got nothing to hide. I got the same "I need my privacy. You don't need to see what I'm talking to my girlfriends about."

"W, I agree. And you don't need to see what I'm talking to my girlfriends about." I just could NOT resist that.

Seriously, though...transparency is required. If she won't take that challenge, no trust. Period. Interview a lawyer. Your M is still in peril and threatened by a predator and your W's cooperation with that predator.
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