I don't think you need to distance yourself from the friend who emailed your WH...is that what you were asking? Why?

About the birth-it makes sense that if you brought it up to him in the past and he hasn't addressed it since, that the ball is in his court.

Good idea to expose another round!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004