Dude - I'm not gonna tell you what to do. The only thing I can say to you is to make SURE that any anger and PRIDE is not getting in the way of your thought process. I know it did with me. I thought I was done, thought I was not angry and then BAM - it hits. It hits hard. Once you start down this path it is very hard to turn back. My suggestion is take the gift of time that you have. Filing does not "release" you...YOU release you. Go enjoy your life, let her do what she thinks she needs to do. When the time is right for YOU you will know what you need to do. Your kids will look at you and know that you stood like the man you are. Just my take buddy. Either way you go - just make sure that you are happy.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
