Yes, LRT does allow your W and OM to have full access and bond. BUT she won't be getting any of her needs met by you so she relies on getting them all met by OM. As usual, they tend to "affair down" so she will find out that he isn't what she thought. She will miss you and reach out. Don't fall for it unless she has ended the R with OM.

LRT also puts you in a very strong position and she sees you won't put up with an A. It is best that LRT start early on, in my opinion based on what I have read, but don't expect her to end it in a few weeks. It could take 6 months or more....

Great job exposing and doing all the right things right away!!!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004