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Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1990251 04/26/10 02:10 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	LolaL, Originally Posted By: LolaL I think it was just because I was tired, and a little hungover... 'm I bad? Went out on Saturday to listen to a local band with some of the girls, had a great time! But I didn't sleep well, so I think it was just that I was exhausted. That'll do it if anything will. Originally Posted By: LolaL I am definitely back to my chipper self today! Glad to hear it. I think the roller coaster becomes a bit more like a kiddie coaster before it goes away. It does go away eventually doesn't it? God, I hope so. I've been banking on it! Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Single and Loving It??? Gardener #1990264 04/26/10 02:30 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Gardener, you and me both! But think of how much progress we have made. It used to be we were at the bottom all the time...and slowly now its only once in a while. Maybe its just like recharging a battery a bit. That good cry cleared my head a bit. I also caught up with a friend I had lost touch with about 10 years ago so that helped too. So I think as tough as this has been, we are on the mend and eventually that roller coaster will be history... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1990339 04/26/10 03:58 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	LolaL Originally Posted By: LolaL I think as tough as this has been, we are on the mend and eventually that roller coaster will be history... Yep. And after that, even the memory of it will fade into history. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Single and Loving It??? Gardener #1990487 04/26/10 06:24 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	That is a day that I am anxiously looking forward to. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1990594 04/26/10 07:50 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	And the beauty of it is, when that day does arrive, we won't even know it. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Single and Loving It??? Gardener #1990619 04/26/10 08:08 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	That is more than okay with me! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1992061 04/28/10 04:50 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Hear hear! (((Lola))) Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Single and Loving It??? MichelleLT #1993479 04/30/10 03:42 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	XH's mother died this morning. This is not the SG, it is the one who is the father of the girls. My heart breaks for him. His mom had a stroke on Tuesday that she just could not recover from. We have to tell the Tween after she gets home from school. Please, everyone, say a prayer for his family, because I know things are going to be really hard on them for a while... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1993525 04/30/10 04:28 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo Member
BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Was excited to see you had posted, but now I am sorry for your loss...and ex-H's. Good luck telling the tween.... Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: Single and Loving It??? BobbiJo #1993565 04/30/10 05:08 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	I'm so sorry Chris. Was your tween close to her? T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

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