he pretty much said that it was unfair to me for him to have done what he has done and still remain married to me.
Ahh, yes. He's trying to convince you (and himself) that what he is doing is best for both of you. Isn't that nice? (sarcasm).
This is why you need to stop pursuing him. I am glad that you are joining a gymn (but a bit worried about the comment that you seem to need attention from a male peronal trainer).
You should join a gymn or whatever (GAL), and personal trainers can be inspiring, but I think I'd save wanting a lot of male attention while you are hoping to save your marriage.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
