So - I was giving my H the benefit of the doubt. There had been no questionable activity on his part so I was hoping my ultimatum worked. But, last night before bed I checked our cell bill and I can see that she sent him a text message yesterday. There was no return. I checked his phone for it today - deleted! And, it ocurred while I was at the mall. So, he could have received her text, deleted it, talked to her through BB messenger, deleted the conversation, etc. The point is I won't ever know for sure what that text said and what he did about it . .. 4 days later and we don't have transparancy. What should I do?
