C-B,

That is definitly a mind blower. Your sitch gets stranger and stranger.

The OM calling - you did better then I would of done. It will be interesting to see how things transpire from that conversation.

Does your W know that he spoke with you?

If he agrees with you and follows through I can see that causing a little conflict between them. As long as he agress with everthing she says she will be happy but the minute he disagrees then maybe she'll start to see.

The "I love you" might be an attempt to see if you are still on the side lines waiting for her?

How did you respond to that?

Matt