If I’m now doing the LRT because of the above situation, and having no contact with my WS except for legal and financial reasons, won’t my WS simply attach even more to her AP, especially since they’re now living together and my WS says she has such strong feelings for him? Doesn’t this make matters worse, even if it’s for my own sanity and protection?
Possibly, especially short-term. But it's still the best strategy, as it's proven.
My advice to you is still the same as I recommended before: time to pull waaaaayyyyy back.
