SC-the kids just found out about OW and have not even met her yet and H is living with her.
H has had them overnight a couple of times when he was in his own place and I was ok with that. In my state, if the kids are 14 or older, they can choose for themselves. I agree Mila that they should be introduced slowly to her.
I will talk to H...I am pretty sure he will agree to take it slow.
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing