BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3

[cagzmom]

T- it helped me personally more than anything. No more "wondering" it just happens. But it was one of the hardest things I had to do in all of this... it was kinda like you being completely dark.. It was me taking a stand for me.

I waited though -- and had a "final" straw. His payments were so spuratic and not consistant...And I needed it. I remember the last time..I called him and we talked. I asked him to please just pay what he was suppose to.. when he aws suppose to. I told him he was forcing me to do something I didn't want to do..... he said "do what you have to do.." (remember mr. passive.)

So, he did just what I thought... didn't pay... I talked to the kids and I cried. My son said "get the money mom.. you need it.. " my daughter just didn't want her daddy to go to jail.. (i explained it all to her.. that he wouldn't.. ) Then they were both like.."then let the state handle it.."

I hope it doesn't come to that for you... maybe his head will fall out of his butt and he will screw it back on and all will be better.