Hey K.. wow you too huh? I wouldnt have wanted to go in either.. thats where he started/conducted his R with Helen, the scene of the crime. It still hurts, especially since we saw her recently.
I agree with Saffie, the innocence of an untarnised R is behind you and you have to accept loss of exclusivity. In my case there was a very public split and a new GF (I found out recently some other very new friends of ours here in Cornwall also got to meet her!! The W was very embarressed when she admitted it to me, but then, its past hey). BUT the further away it receedes and the more new memories you build, the less it matters. Except when you bump into ow in a pub, grrrr !!!
Hey Goodfight, I'm sorry its been a while for you, but I am so glad if this thread helps.
