Sandycay - That's how I am in person. Just fun. Your post above really hit home. H took away my "fun" a lot, by being a BUZZ KILL. It's really refreshing to be me, without influence.
--- Headin' down YOUR road.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.