Did you ask him to be present? Do you want him to come and see the baby? I think this is very important and worth asking him as soon as possible.
Hi NM, well I asked him in the beginning when things weren't so bad, and he was ambivalent. By all means, i want him to see his baby, and he has every right to also. But I reckon he needs to do the work and ask me. I'm going dark until the birth.
