Good Day, just a thought on your last post, perhaps (not sure of course), the filing of the divorce is the wake up for her. As I do not know, please do not take this as advice but as a thought. I believe sometimes our continued extended love is mistaken for we will always be there no matter what the other person does. We are responsible for ourselves and our actions, not the others. Could be a jolt like that, especially if it comes as a shock could be the action that triggers some inward reflection within herself.

Or perhaps if you choose to consider this, suggest to her that should file and get the ball rolling. This might be an option for you as well.

As always, continued blessings and prayers to you and yours!

Last edited by thegoodfight; 04/26/10 11:02 AM.
Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!