Reconnecting - Do they know?

[old theotherhalf]

When we tend to struggle and/or try to take control over the situation, we cannot see clearly and create more struggle for ourselves.

This is an UNDERSTATEMENT! I am proof positive if you go back and read my old threads. If I would have just accepted that my M was over and let H go and let God. Things could have been so different. Instead I hung on so tight and did everything in my power to try and change H and the sitch. I drug myself and my girls through so much more pain and suffering. Some of which I will carry with me the rest of my life.